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I mostly skip the vexatious posts, and rarely reply. Some people cannot be argued with, therefore there is no point. I'm sure we have all met this kind before. They are easier to avoid in person than in an environment such as this. When I get too frustrated I stay away or just lurk for a while. I am not prepared to lose the war, but will avoid the occassional battle.

Delta I love that word, vexatious...some members of my family use delicious words like that and I love it! It describes aforesaid posts perfectly.

You are right but 'dafter by the minute' is too gentle. I was thinking more like 'totally nuts'.

Not sure what bandwagon s/he thinks s/he is on because s/he has many axes to grind. I just think it is sad. We should be kinder. I am too meanspirited. :oops:
Am now thinking we should be more loving and receptive to this poster who is a very very sad case. :cry: :cry: :cry:

Kindness serves no purpose when narcissism is the issue. It simply cannot be impacted upon. All the more reason to avoid it where possible. I really do believe that some people have damaged amygdala or other brain parts.

Long PM on its way..............................
Delta..I have to agree... :roll:

Hi Sheryl here again. I have been busy over the last couple of days and have just seen that we are still having problems with Dog Lover/Guest. I am still learning the new system but I think I have it sorted so that she can't join anymore under any name - if you think she is still posting, please let me know. Cheers, Sheryl.

Jode's suggestion seems a very sound and sensible one to me. I too feel exactly as she does, and cannot be bothered picking my way through all of this Doglovers crap either - it puts me right off being bothered to say anything on any of the topics. Doglover is taking is taking over the entire site in her usual horrible and deeply insulting manner. I am just getting so fed up with suppressing the responses my natural urge would have me say. I reckon that having to watch my P's & Q's over this is just too damn hard on an old girl like me. I feel like I want to be strongly abusive, and tell the bitch to F off, and believe me that is not in my normal nature. As a Libra I am a peace loving person. It worries me to feel that I am fast loosing control, and I have no wish to loose my dignity in front of so many good people. I am afraid Sheryl that unless something more effective can be done to stop the goings on here, I like others feel it is best not to come here. :cry:

Oh Sheryl! I was posting at the same time you were obviously. Disregard what I said in my last post please. Actually I said in private to one of the other RW the other day, that you are possible still getting to know and the hang of this new site yourself. I am sure that you are doing everything possible, and so sorry if I sounded impatient and grumpy . Well I was... but not with you. Just with you who hopefully really will be a 'thing of the past,1: Thanks Sheryl and Yippee everyone else.. things are on the up again!

KKKK-Katy, just for future reference (!), if you are logged in and have written and then submitted something that you wish you hadn't, at the top right hand corner of what you wrote is an 'x' - click on this and what you wrote will magically delete!